Suggested Reading List

Success in Life (Orders of Success)

by Bert Hellinger

This book describes the applications of the insights in business and work life, with practical examples from many countries.

Often we distinguish between the realms of family, personal fulfillment and personal happiness in relationships on the one hand, and the realm of work and its success and relationships, on the other, as if we were able or permitted to separate them. But these spheres still follow the same laws of success and failure, and of fortune and misfortune, the same laws and orders in life and in love…

Laws of Healing: Getting well, staying well

by Bert Hellinger

When we talk about healing, we are often thinking about physical healing alone; we locate the source of pain in our body and attempt to alleviate it. But beyond the body, healing encompasses the soul. Both need to be considered and treated well. Often we feel the pain of the soul even more intensely than the pain in the body. So we may ask, from where does the soul draw the confidence for healing the body and healing itself? This confidence comes from love. It draws on a love far surpassing the love that makes us ill, because, surprisingly, illness is also a manifestation of love, though its nature is of a different ilk. The love that heals the soul – and then the body – is unfathomable, outside the scope of intellect, and yet we know that it is there, vast and powerful…

Laws of Healing: Getting well, staying well

by Bert Hellinger

When we talk about healing, we are often thinking about physical healing alone; we locate the source of pain in our body and attempt to alleviate it. But beyond the body, healing encompasses the soul. Both need to be considered and treated well. Often we feel the pain of the soul even more intensely than the pain in the body. So we may ask, from where does the soul draw the confidence for healing the body and healing itself? This confidence comes from love. It draws on a love far surpassing the love that makes us ill, because, surprisingly, illness is also a manifestation of love, though its nature is of a different ilk…

Supporting Love: How Love Works in Couple Relationships

by Bert Hellinger

When couples turn to therapy or to self-help, they are usually looking for a way to “fix” their “problem.” Common solutions might entail improving communication skills, identifying unproductive interaction patterns, or changing some specific behaviors.

When a couple steps into the work of Bert Hellinger, the partners are entering a realm of uncommon solution. Hellinger’s approach — family constellations and the underlying observations from which they take shape — taps into the deepest dynamics of a relationship. People begin to see just how unseen forces, including non-present family members and those of past generations, and the choices that were made long ago, affect the current partners’ connections with each other at many different levels.

The Language of the Soul: Healing with Words of Truth

by John L. Payne

Enriched by numerous case studies and years of client experience, this book guides readers to move beyond the tangled web of stories they tell themselves and others about their lives, relationships, illnesses, and disruptive life patterns. Step-by-step, the chapters uncover the origins of behaviors and feelings such as drug or alcohol addiction, failed careers, and depression. Hidden loyalties to people and ideas are introduced as the underlying causes of these obstacles, which cloud the path to success and cause people to believe the stories they tell themselves, eventually losing touch with the truth. Through the examples in this book, readers will learn to acknowledge and embrace truth, spelling out the explicit facts and rejecting the fictions they have created to excuse their failings.

HEALTH, HAPPINESS, & FAMILY CONSTELLATIONS: How Ancestors, Family Systems, and Hidden Loyalties Shape Your Life–And What YOU Can Do About It

by Michael Reddy, Ph.D, CPC

This book provides a very different way to leave chronic suffering behind. Whether it’s emotional or physical, regardless of the diagnosis, much of it is not anchored in you the individual. Instead, we are suffering with and for those we have loved. With engaging personal stories, and simple explanations of dramatic transformations, Michael Reddy shares with you the missing link in healing.

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